Leave it to Mary to say it how it really is. I’ve been a fan of Mary for a while now. Hell, hip hop wouldn’t be what it is today if it weren’t for You’re All I Need. But that’s another post in itself.
I constantly hear people (yes men and women) talking about how much better off they would be if they got with someone else. I’m not going to front, some of them would be. But for the most part, people fall for the “grass is greener on the other side of the fence” philosophy a little too much for my taste. Relationships take work and it can’t be happy all the time. You have to experience the bad times to appreciate the good.
With that being said, I also hear people (again mean and women) blame themselves for the ending of a relationship. Most of the time, it’s because the other person made them feel that way. If you give your all to your relationship and you try your best, then that’s all you can give. Nobody’s going to treat you as good as I AM. Hold your heads up high Dangerously Beautiful people.by Latrice